One day as the buddah was walking through the village, some angry little dude started cursing him out.

The buddah calmly looked at the dude and said tell me “if you buy a gift for someone and that person does not accept it, do who does that gift belong?“.

Now this angry little dude is watch off guard and says “obliviously it belongs to me, i bought the gift”.

Smiling the buddah said ‘that is correct’ and that is exactly the same with your anger. When you come to me with your anger and I choose not to accept it, it falls back on you